Cancer in Love



  Changeable, Moody, Sensitive and Clingy

 

Emotional, Intuitive, Imaginative, Protective and Sympathetic

Cancers first love is their home and family. They love to nurture those around them. No sacrifice is too large to ensure their home is secure and their loved ones are safe, secure and happy. They are very kind and sharing. Cancers tend to be very moody and often retreat into themselves to regenerate and or sometimes sulk. The quickest way for them to rebound is to do what they do best: nurture others. Cancers can be very iron-willed and like to have things their way. They are very sensitive and prone to slights and hurt easily. When in pain - Cancer retreats into themselves and brood, sulk and hide in their caves. Although generally they do not like confrontation, Cancers are not above seeking revenge against those who have hurt them. Cancers are compassionate and freely show their affection for others. They will set their problems aside to assist others in solving their own. Being extremely intuitive, they often know what is upsetting someone without being told. They are great communicators and can often help those in trouble with just a few words, a smile or a tender loving glance. Overall, Cancers are quite outgoing and funny. They love to socialize with their friends, strangers and their family.Their need to care for those in their circle makes them an asset to any family, group or organization.

 



Cancer can be emotional, adaptable, cautious, loving, sympathetic, protective, moody and unable to let go at times. Their first love is their family. Family comes first for Cancer followed closely by friends, associates and loves. They tend to nurture those around them and there is no sacrifice too large to endure in order to insure that Cancer has and sustains a happy home and family life. They will go to great lengths to defend those they love and do everything in their power to make their circle of friends happy. Caution - Cancer can be moody, so it's very important that they retreat into their room or place of contentment once in awhile to recharge and rest those sensitive feelings of theirs.

 

Cancer has the ability to rebound from difficulties more successfully than others can. They are very compassionate and are able to talk to others and put their own issues aside to assist and aid others going through tough times. However, when Cancer is going through those times, they are instantly programmed to retreat and sulk. They might even desire to seek revenge against those who have wronged them (or those they perceive to have wronged them). This is not always the case, but Cancers find that it's almost impossible to ignore what others motives are. Talk about intuition! Cancer needs to take some time off when they feel the pain, emotions and suffering of others. Cancer can utilize their communication skills to assist others in solving their own. Cancers have the gift of communication - and they always put it to good use for themselves and for others. They can solve any problems with their words, famous intuition and not by hiding in their room and feeling sorry for themselves! They need to utilize their strong will to have things their way by NOT being overly sensitive and emotional. The secret to Cancer success is to come from a place of logic not emotion. Yes, Cancers are truly one of a kind!

Cancer September Forecast

The Sun transits your 3rd House of travel, visits, relatives, siblings and ideas that can become viable and profitable.

As September begins, Mercury (communications, travel and your intellectual nature) will travel through three signs and creates a hectic, fast paced month for you, Cancer.  Mercury begins the month in Virgo. Virgo is your 3rd House of short distance travel, siblings and your neighborhood. Any time Mercury transits your 3rd House, your communication skills stand out and your ability to deal effectively with neighbors, via your home life and within your community, are heightened. On 9/9, Mercury enters Libra and your 4th House. This transit could find you feeling suddenly uncertain and possibly confused with regards to where you stand in your closest relationships. To navigate this transit, be agreeable and utilize tact when dealing with others close to you. Your home life promises to take on greater importance throughout this transit. On 9/29, Mercury enters Scorpio and your 5th House of love, passion and creative pursuits. You figure out where you stand and any previous confusion will evaporate when Mercury transits your 5th House of Scorpio, Cancer.   

Mars (physical energy/motivation and drive) occupies the month in Leo, Cancer. Leo is your 2nd House of valuables and money. Your greatest motivation throughout this transit will be on payments, savings and collections. A strong desire to increase your finances takes over. However, it will be equally important that you display versatility, adaptability and hang on to your sense of humor. You tend to be conservative with your finances but this month, you need to remain socially minded in regards to your income and all financial matters. Pay special attention on 9/9 as you and a partner could have a disagreement where finances are involved.  

Venus (love, romance and finances) begins the month in Libra. During this transit, you can find home and family matters dominating until 9/11. Venus will enter Scorpio on 9/11 through 10/7. During this time, a major relationship could end while another one could begin almost immediately. Love relationships become serious and more committed. Your personality shines and invitations to travel will be presented to you. Women will be helpful and assist you in personal matters, Cancer. If single, you could have more than one admirer during this time. Take your time in love this month as you might change your mind about a current partner at a later date.

A New Moon forms in Virgo on 9/5. Virgo is your 3rd House of short trips and your community. There could be travel plans on your agenda on this date. Be on the lookout for offers presented to you in regard to publishing, communications and where your personal life is involved. Jupiter is still in your 1st House and creates a smooth angle to this New Moon. Translation? Expect good news to come your way and be receptive to all offers that come your way.        

A Full Moon forms in Pisces on 9/19. This Full Moon impacts your 9th House of overseas travel and publishing.  This Full Moon will be a memorable day for you as well. Overseas travel, higher education and your worldviews come into play. You conclude you're in a much better place than you imagined on this Full Moon.

On 9/20 - Pluto turns direct in your 7th House of marriage, legal issues and divorce. The 7th House also rules those who oppose you, Cancer. These areas gather momentum and you regain a stronger position in these areas. Relationships will begin to show serious signs of improvement.

The signs of Gemini, Virgo and a Sagittarius will be involved.  A Gemini will be demanding of you where your time, energy and resources are involved. Play the waiting game with a Gemini this month, Cancer. A Virgo will be involved where relatives, siblings and short distance trips are involved. Take it easy with a Virgo this month. A Sagittarius finds you irresistible this month. You and a Sagittarius share a strong connection and a fondness for one another. Sagittarius encourages you to break of your shell and start over again. Follow your intuition in this association for best results, Cancer.   

Stand out dates: 1st, 5th, 15th, 19th, 20th & 23rd

Cancer 2013 Yearly Forecast/Horoscope

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As 2013 begins, the Sun transits your 7th House of marriage, divorce and open enemies. This is considered your low cycle time of the year, Cancer, as it is approximately six months (or opposite) from your birthday. As you begin 2013, your energy levels could be low but your love life will be fulfilling and getting more serious. Venus (Love) enters your 7th House of Capricorn on January 9th, bringing you enough love, comfort and affection to get through the low energy days in January. With Venus in Capricorn, relationships get serious, fast. In fact, personal and professional relationships become ultra serious. Single Cancers find business opportunities open up when least expected and promise to be solid and fruitful offers. Enjoy the transit of Venus in Capricorn as it promises to bring more money, recognition and admiration your way, Cancer. Those coupled Cancers can find a serious relationship is ready for the next step as January begins! Marriage, children or taking a  commitment in your love life to the next level is in the cards for Cancers in 2013. 


2013 will be a time when your leadership qualities emerge and you rid yourself from events in 2012 that you have realized no longer serve a useful purpose. You break out of your shell in 2013 and become the person you want to be, not what others expect you to be and you feel secure with your actions. It's time to take a cue from Leo and show the world how powerful and dynamic you are capable of being. It's time to emerge from your protective shell in 2013, Cancer.    

Pluto (slow but powerful change/transformation) continues its transit of your 7th House of marriage, divorce and the legal system. Since 2008, Pluto has been in Capricorn where it will remain for a long time to come. By now, you should have a stronger understanding of these areas via personal and observational experiences and insight.  The goal of Pluto is to tear down in order to rebuild from the ground up. This planet has no mercy and is all about death, rebirth and ultimately transformation at deep and powerful levels, Cancer. The only way to navigate through Pluto is to accept whatever you cannot change and be mindful of how you treat those in your life as well as how you treat yourself, Cancer. Pluto is the planet of destruction and can decimate your marriage, bring on a divorce or separation, or show you how to become law abiding when it visits your 7th House. Be mindful of the important relationships in your life this year for ideal results. Stay away from taking any risks that could prove costly, such as drinking and driving, impulsively texting or doing something and not thinking about the consequences that could ultimately affect your life. The influence of Pluto in Capricorn for Cancer personally means that all Cancers, single and coupled, will transform at powerful levels when dealing with the subjects of marriage, legal issues and business relationships. You can look back to 2008 and see the slow but powerful changes which have occurred in these areas. What HAS changed since then, Cancer?  

Neptune (What is hidden) transits your 9th House of spirituality and higher learning. This transit forms a beneficial angle to your sign, Cancer, so you can expect your experiences with overseas travel, people from foreign countries, publishing and your worldviews to evolve during this time and possibly have a spiritual or enlightening element to them. You will be learning to walk again, so to speak, as new experiences and new faces will change the way you view the world. You find that you are incorporating your spiritual views into your life equation. Neptune rules what is hidden and lack of boundaries and represents our blind spots.  While you might be strongly drawn towards these areas, realize that you might need to look beneath the surface, if possible. If not careful you may find that Neptune can create confusion and in some cases, deception. Maybe that online friend in a foreign country is really not your friend, so be mindful of who you allow into your inner circle.

Uranus (Surprises) is in your 10th House of prestige, public acclaim and your career. You can anticipate some unexpected events to stir up your career during this transit throughout 2013, Cancer. You could end a job, begin a new one or find yourself dealing with surprising events that occur at your place of employment. This planet is all about shaking you up and putting you in the right place. If you're stuck in a rut, Uranus will awaken you from your slumber and show you where you need to be, not where you want or hope to be. Expect a few jolts in your career throughout 2013, Cancer.  

Saturn (Lessons/Structures) is in your 5th House of love, creativity and passion. There could be a tendency for emotions to run hot and cold (your own or that of a close partner) during this time. Your feelings could also be misinterpreted or you could misunderstand where a partner is coming from. Utilize maturity and your best judgment when dealing with love and serious relationships. This transit could include a marriage but also brings the possibility of divorce or separation. This is not a great time to take risks in your personal life, Cancer. 

Jupiter (Prosperity/Expansion) will be in your 12th House until June when it enters your 1st House and your life really begins to take off. Expect summer to be a time of great expansion, increased movement and personal growth. It will be a time when you benefit through your own desires and goals, Cancer. Where you have been hoping or praying for a miracle, summer of 2013 brings your hopes to life. Your best month of 2013 will be June and especially the 25th when Jupiter enters your sign. Your love, career and overall life will all be in sync in July and last throughout the remainder of 2013 and through next summer. Cancer will be making major life changes this year and learning how to deal with a new way of looking at the world in a leadership position.

Your best time for love is whenever Venus travels in Cancer or a compatible water sign element. The following is a list of your best times for love in 2013, Cancer.

2/25 - 3/21 Venus in Pisces

6/2 - 6/27 Venus in Cancer

9/11 - 10/7 Venus in Scorpio

This time next year finds Cancer in the right place at the perfect moment and more fulfilled than ever.  2013 will be a standout year as you free yourself from the trials and tribulations of 2012.  Yes, Cancer, it's finally time to dispose of those things, jobs, routines and relationships that no longer serve ANY purpose in your life.



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